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I have been working for more than 30 years now, which is slightly alarming to me when I see that number written down.During that time I have worked in different industries, led organisations, employed people, served on Boards, made good decisions and some fairly ordinary ones, dealt with difficult situations, built things that worked and a few things that did not.Somewhere along the way, you accumulate experience.We talk about experience as though simply having it is valuable. And of course it is. There are things I know now that I could not possibly have known at 25 or 35 because I had not lived through enough yet.But I am beginning to wonder whether experience on its own is actually worth very much.If all those lessons remain with us, what happens to them?<h3>Someone saw something in me</h3>One of my earliest jobs was at Bridge Jewellers, a jewellery and gift shop in Carlingford NSW. I was young enough that I don't think I fully understood the value of the stock we had in the store. I just knew I loved the displays, the customers and making things look beautiful.I still remember the day my manager trusted me to set out the front window filled with diamonds and jewels. At the time, I probably saw it as a promotion and a chance to be creative. Looking back, I can see something else. She had decided I was trustworthy.I worked hard. I came in early, stayed late and always offered to help. And this was back in the days when cash was still very much king. I can remember walking out of the shop, across the road to Westpac Bank, carrying a bag with thousands of dollars in the previous day’s takings.It seems almost unbelievable now.What I understand differently today is that someone had seen something in me and given me responsibility before I had the experience to fully appreciate it.Most of us can probably point to someone who did that for us. Someone who trusted us before we had developed our own confidence. Someone who gave us a chance or quietly decided we were capable of more.Those moments matter because they are often where experience begins.<h3>Experience is not the same as wisdom</h3>There is an assumption that age automatically produces wisdom.I am not convinced.You can have 30 years of experience, or essentially the same year repeated 30 times.Experience becomes useful when we reflect on it. What worked? What did not? What would I do differently now? What did I completely misunderstand at the time?Some of my most useful leadership lessons have come from situations I would happily have avoided. The role that did not work out. The person I misjudged. The opportunity I said yes to when I probably should have said no. The leader I worked for who showed me exactly how I did not want to lead.At the time, those experiences did not feel particularly valuable. They just felt difficult.It is only later that you begin to see the patterns. That is one of the benefits of getting further along in your career. You have enough history to recognise that very few experiences are wasted if you are prepared to learn from them.But learning the lesson yourself is only part of it.At some point, the question becomes what do you do with what you have learnt.<h3>Sometimes people need someone beside them</h3>I have had the privilege of serving on a number of Boards, and one of the experiences I value most was mentoring the founder of a not for profit organisation.She had enormous vision and commitment, but from time to time she questioned whether she had enough experience, or whether she was really the right person to be CEO.From where I sat, the answer was much clearer. Her vision for the organisation and her commitment to its purpose were taking it somewhere another leader simply could not have taken it, achieving huge positive impacts across many lives.She did not need someone to take over. She needed someone beside her with a little more experience. Someone who could help her think things through, speak trust and confidence into the difficult days and remind her that she was capable of leading what she had created.I am no longer on that Board, but the organisation continues to thrive. One of the things I enjoy most is watching that CEO now encourage other people around her to step into leadership themselves.That, to me, is where experience becomes valuable.Not when it makes us the person with all the answers, but when it helps someone else develop confidence in their own judgement.<h3>What do we do with what we know?</h3>At 55, I am starting to think that accumulating more experience may no longer be the main point.Perhaps part of the responsibility that comes with experience is deciding what we are going to do with it.That might mean mentoring someone. Giving a younger leader an opportunity before they think they are ready. Explaining not just what decision you made, but how you reached it. Teaching what you know. Building processes that mean an organisation does not rely on what is stored in one person’s head.And perhaps, most importantly, recognising potential in someone else before they can quite see it themselves.Someone once did that for me.Years later, I had the privilege of doing something similar for another leader. Now I watch her create opportunities and confidence in the people around her.That is the part I find interesting.Experience passed on does not diminish. It multiplies.So perhaps the question for those of us who have been around for a while is not simply, “What have I learnt?”It is, “Who is better equipped because I learnt it?”Thirty years of experience kept to ourselves eventually becomes our personal history. Passed on, it can become someone else’s starting point.So what do you do with 30 years of experience?You pass it on.And perhaps the real measure is whether someone else is more capable, more confident or more willing to step forward because of what you learnt along the way.

What Do You Do With 30 Years of Experience?

<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal);" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal);">I <span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">have been thinking lately about how we measure a productive day. Most of us count the obvious things. Meetings attended. Problems solved. Emails answered. Decisions made. Tasks completed.But do we count the things that keep us well enough to keep doing all of that?For me, it is my daily walk.I often make a note in my journal at the end of the day. Sometimes the entry is full of work, travel, meetings, decisions and things I managed to get done. And then somewhere near the end I will write, “No walk.”It is usually just an observation. But I have started noticing how often it appears.And it has made me wonder whether I am measuring the day properly.Because I can have a very productive day by every normal measure and still have made no time for the things that are actually good for me.<h3>Productivity is not just output</h3>Earlier in my career, productivity was fairly easy to see. There was always something to build, fix, organise or deliver. Progress often meant doing more, learning more and taking on more responsibility.That still matters. I like getting things done, and some days the work simply needs to be done.But I think the measure changes as leadership changes.At some point, productivity cannot just be about how much we can fit into the day. It also has to include whether we are making room for the things that help us stay well.For me, walking matters physically, but it also gives me time to think. Some of my best ideas come when I am moving and not staring at a screen.For someone else, it might be the gym, swimming, gardening, reading, prayer, time with family, or just getting outside.The activity itself is not really the point.The question is whether there is anything in your day that restores you.<h3>What always gets pushed aside?</h3>The problem is that the things that sustain us are rarely urgent.Nobody sends a calendar invitation telling us to go for a walk. (Though I could always enter this myself!!)There is no crisis that requires us to sit quietly for half an hour, call a friend, read a book or think about the next ten years.So those things get pushed aside.The meeting starts at 10.The deadline is Friday.The phone is ringing.And before long, the things outside work that matter become the things we will get to when life settles down.I am not convinced life ever really settles down.We have to make room for them. And I think Daylight Saving helps me get out and about before it gets dark - but is that making my day longer??<h3>A better measure of the day</h3>So I am trying to broaden my own definition of productivity.Yes, the work counts.But so does the walk.So does exercise.So does time with family.So does writing.So does thinking.So does rest. (I took Friday off and it's a long weekend - that counts right??)Maybe the better question at the end of the day is not just, “What did I get done?”Maybe it is also, “Did I make room for anything today that was good for me?”For me, some days the answer is still:No walk.But at least I am noticing it now.

What Counts as a Productive Day?

Solo traveler thoughtfully holding beverage by café window overlooking traditional mountain village architecture

<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal);" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal);">I <span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">had a strange moment recently. I was away for work, the day was finished, dinner was done, and I was sitting alone in an apartment. There was nothing particularly wrong. I was safe, the trip was going well, and I had more than enough ways to fill the evening if I wanted to. Television, podcasts, social media, work, messages. All the usual noise was available.And yet, for a moment, I felt lonely.That surprised me because I actually spend quite a lot of time on my own and, generally, I like it. I enjoy walking on my own. I like having time to think. Writing usually needs some quiet. After a busy week, time alone can feel like a relief rather than a problem.But that night it felt different.<h3>Alone and lonely are not the same thing</h3>Being alone is simply a circumstance. Sometimes it is even a gift. It gives us space to think, reset, pray, write, walk, or simply hear ourselves again after a noisy week.Loneliness is something else. It is the point where the absence of other people starts to feel heavier than the quiet itself.I think that distinction matters, particularly now. We live in a world where we are rarely truly disconnected. There is always something to scroll, watch, read or listen to, and we can fill every spare moment without ever having to sit with ourselves.So perhaps the better question is not, “Am I alone?” but, “How does being alone feel right now?”<ul><li>Does the quiet restore you, or does it start to weigh on you?</li><li><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">Does the space help you think, or make you feel disconnected?</li></ul>That night, I realised the answer had shifted.For a little while I sat with it, and then I did something very simple. I called my husband.Nothing profound happened. He did not need to solve anything. We just talked.And almost immediately I was reminded of something I already knew. I was not actually alone.<h3>Sometimes the answer is a person</h3>That moment stayed with me because it reminded me that loneliness is not something to dismiss or explain away. For some people, it is a deep and persistent experience, and a single phone call cannot simply make it disappear.Sometimes what we need is not another podcast, another television show or another hour scrolling through other people’s lives. And I’m not sure AI can adequately fill the void, though ChatGPT and I have some great conversations!We need a person.A friend. A colleague. Someone in the family. Someone whose voice reminds us that we belong somewhere.For me, that phone call was enough. The moment passed, the trip continued, and I came home with a slightly greater appreciation for the ordinary things I had missed.So perhaps another useful question is this:<ul><li>When you feel lonely, who do you call?</li><li><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">Not who could you call in theory. Who would you actually call?</li></ul>I think that matters because relationships do not maintain themselves automatically. In a busy life, it is very easy to assume people know we care, assume we will catch up soon, assume there will always be another chance. But time moves quickly and before you know it, a year has gone by and you haven't spoken to that friend!Sometimes we need to make the call.<figure id="figure-khgou0rgicmuhmc72a"data-full-width><img id="khgou0rgicmuhmc72a" src="https://rjdavx8ozyznxeyh.public.blob.vercel-storage.com/production/websites/infinite-images/617a0d21-5e6c-4642-bd87-5993cfdc2e4c-Egk0g7sdBOF21eROjGQ3gt8w4o2dkz.png" alt="Diverse individual in contemplative moment, gazing toward window light, reflecting personal growth and healing" title="Diverse individual in contemplative moment, gazing toward window light, reflecting personal growth and healing" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="Solitude still matters" data-positionX="undefined" data-positionY="undefined" data-fullWidth="true"/><figcaption class="body-normal text-gray-500 mt-2">Solitude still matters</figcaption></figure><h3>Solitude still matters</h3>Interestingly, that moment has not made me want to avoid being alone.I still love my walks. I still need time to write. I still value thinking time and the space that comes when nobody needs anything from me for a while.Solitude is important. In fact, I suspect many of us need more of it.But solitude should restore us, not isolate us.We should be able to sit quietly with ourselves without immediately needing to fill the space. But when the quiet starts to feel lonely, we should not be too proud, too busy or too independent to reach out.And for me, there is one more layer.My faith reminds me that I am never truly alone. Jesus is with me in the crowded room, on the plane, on the walk and in the quiet apartment at the end of the day.I know that.But knowing it does not mean I will never feel lonely for a moment.Faith does not require me to deny the ache when it comes. It gives me somewhere to place it, and the courage to respond rather than hide from it.Perhaps that is what I am learning. Being alone is not the problem. Sometimes it is exactly what we need.But when being alone starts to feel like loneliness, reach out.And remember that needing people is not a weakness. It is part of being human.

Alone Is Not the Same as Lonely

One of the harder things about leadership is knowing when to step in and when to step back.The longer you lead, the easier it becomes to see the problem, anticipate where something is heading and know how you would fix it. The temptation is to jump in, make the decision and move things along. It is usually quicker and sometimes certainly easier.But if you do that every time, nobody else gets the chance to lead.So over time, good leaders learn to step back. We delegate more. We give people room to make decisions. We allow them to work things through in their own way rather than expecting them to do it exactly as we would.That sounds straightforward, but I think we sometimes blur the distinction between delegation and empowerment, and they are not actually the same thing.<h3>Delegation is not empowerment</h3>When I delegate something, I am still responsible for checking back in. I need to know the work has been done, review the outcome where appropriate, provide feedback and, just as importantly, give the person confidence that they got it right.That last part matters.And I am certainly not saying I always get it right.Sometimes we delegate something and then become too hands off. We tell ourselves we are trusting the person, but really we have just handed the work over and moved on to the next thing.Then something goes wrong.Suddenly we are back in the middle of it, pulling the work back, taking control and trying to fix the problem. The person who originally had the responsibility is left feeling belittled, neglected or like they have failed.That is not where we want to end up.I have struggled with that tension throughout my career. I like to be in control. But I also quite like handing work off and moving on, sometimes forgetting that delegation does not remove my responsibility as the leader.That is the fine line.Delegation is part of developing capability. I give you something to own, I let you do it, then I come back and check. If you have done it well, I tell you. If something needs to change, we work through it. Then next time I can step back a little further.Eventually, if we have done that properly, delegation can become empowerment.I know you can do it. You know you can do it. We both understand the expectations and the boundaries, and I no longer need to check every step.<figure id="figure-7b8w36u3fvmu58dojz"><img id="7b8w36u3fvmu58dojz" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2eybtQVrpT56E0W15XVf9mOm2qDDnlqqt83cP4gtatinEWrWr60wpSHabUtSwZCD.jpg" alt="Diverse professionals engaged in interactive team-building exercise in modern open workspace with genuine collaboration and energy" title="Diverse professionals engaged in interactive team-building exercise in modern open workspace with genuine collaboration and energy" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2eybtQVrpT56E0W15XVf9mOm2qDDnlqqt83cP4gtatinEWrWr60wpSHabUtSwZCD.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>Then you have to let go</h3>But then comes the harder part.I have to let go.I have to trust that you will get it right, even if you do not do it my way.Your way may be different and still be perfectly fine.In fact, sometimes it may be better.And that is where another leadership test appears.What if someone in your team becomes better than you?What if they can do the job more effectively than you can?What if one day they are ready to take your job?I hope they are.Surely that is the goal.The role of a leader should not be to remain the most capable person in the room forever. It should be to build other leaders, people who can take the organisation somewhere you cannot.If the people around us never become better than us, we probably have not done enough to develop them.I can think of times in my own career when I hit a ceiling, and the ceiling was not the organisation.It was the leader above me.A leader who could not let go. A leader who did not want to see someone else rise too far. Eventually, when there is nowhere left to grow, capable people leave.I know I have.That experience has stayed with me.Good leaders create room. They give people opportunities. They allow them to succeed in their own way. And if those people eventually outgrow the role, the team or even the leader, that should be something we are proud of, not threatened by.<h3>Knowing when to step back in</h3>None of that means we disappear.That is where empowerment can become confused with avoidance.A person may genuinely need time to work through a problem. A team may need to wrestle with an issue rather than having the answer handed to them. Someone may make a decision differently from the way I would have made it, and that does not make their decision wrong.But there are also times when a leader does need to step back in.A project may have stopped progressing. Responsibility may have become unclear. A decision may have been circulating for so long that nobody is quite sure who is supposed to make it anymore. The consequences of getting something wrong may have moved beyond an individual's learning experience and begun to affect the broader organisation.At that point, continuing to stand back is not necessarily empowerment.It may simply be avoidance.So the question is not just, “Have I delegated this?”It is, “Have I delegated it well?”Did I explain what success looked like? Did the person know what authority they had? Did we agree when I would check back in? Have I given them feedback? Do they know that I trust them?Sometimes what looks like a performance problem is actually a delegation problem.We handed over a task, disappeared and assumed the other person would somehow know what was in our head.Then we are disappointed when the outcome is not what we expected.Good delegation requires clarity at the beginning, trust in the middle and follow up at the end.And when someone gets it right, we need to tell them.That is how delegation becomes empowerment.The first time I might say, “Take this on and let's check it together when you are finished.”Later it becomes, “You've done this before. I trust you to make the call.”That is the progression we should be aiming for.Not a team that needs the leader to approve everything, and not a leader who proudly talks about empowerment while having no idea what is actually happening.The goal is to build capable people who understand their authority, exercise good judgement and are confident enough to lead.And, hopefully, one day, do it better than we did.

The Fine Line Between Delegation and Empowerment

<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal);" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal);">I <span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">realised this week that I have not posted an article here since March. Six months.I am not entirely sure where those weeks went.Actually, that is not true. I know exactly where they went. Into work, travel, conferences, meetings, family, commitments and a diary that seems to refill itself faster than I can empty it.Which is probably why this particular article has been sitting in my head.I turned 55 this year, and I have found myself thinking more and more about what the next stage of life looks like.We keep calling it retirement, but I am not sure I really believe in retirement as a concept.Martin turns 65 in a few months, so naturally we talk about it. He officially retired on 30th June. When will I retire? Will I work until 60, 65 or 70?The truth is, I have absolutely no idea.What I do know is that I cannot imagine simply stopping.I like working. I like being useful. I enjoy leading, building things, solving problems, mentoring people and taking on interesting challenges.What I am less sure about is whether I want to keep doing all of that in exactly the same way for another 10 or 15 years.I was thinking about this recently while sitting on yet another plane, away from my family. My laptop battery had died, so instead of working I was listening to podcasts, playing a game and thinking about all the things I could be doing differently.Maybe I should write more articles.Maybe I should finally write the book I keep talking about writing.Maybe I should create something that earns money while I sleep.Or perhaps I should just go on more cruises.All perfectly reasonable options.The point is that I am starting to think much more deliberately about what the next stage of life looks like.<figure id="figure-3yeks5n57hmtih7sk9"><img id="3yeks5n57hmtih7sk9" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/20T8rGP93KeV2ANld3pShYSOKIXc1AiEZYuEFRdjyXAwDndLc3gVilmxL1yELOGZ.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="Jewel of the Seas" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/20T8rGP93KeV2ANld3pShYSOKIXc1AiEZYuEFRdjyXAwDndLc3gVilmxL1yELOGZ.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"><figcaption class="body-normal text-gray-500 mt-2">Jewel of the Seas</figcaption></figure>Earlier this year I wrote about checking whether we are actually spending our time on the things we say matter to us. I had realised how quickly opportunities, commitments and worthwhile work can fill the diary, often before we stop to ask whether they still fit the plan. <a data-mce-href="https://uniqueleaders.com.au/blog/on-track-or-off-course" href="https://uniqueleaders.com.au/blog/on-track-or-off-course" target="_blank" rel="noopener">On Track or Off Course?</a>I still struggle with that.For much of my career, saying yes has served me pretty well. Say yes to the challenge. Say yes to the opportunity. Get on the plane. Have the meeting. Start the new project. Work out how to make it happen.And I am certainly not suggesting I want a life where nothing happens.But at 55, I am becoming much more conscious that I am no longer trying to build a career. I have one. And I love it.That changes things.The question is becoming less about what else I can achieve and more about how I want to use the time, experience and opportunities I have in front of me.I look at people who continue working well into their 60s and 70s. Some clearly love what they are doing and have made a conscious choice to keep going. Others seem to be doing exactly what they have always done because they have never made a conscious choice to do anything different.That is what I do not want.I do not want the second half of my life to be a long wind down to nothing particularly purposeful. But I also do not want to wake up at 70 and realise I have spent another 15 years with the same ridiculous diary, flying around the country and saying yes to everything because that is simply what Michelle does.I want this stage to have value.I want to keep contributing and leading. I want to use what I have learnt over more than 30 years of work and leadership. I want to mentor more people, write more, speak where I can genuinely add something and perhaps finally turn some of the things sitting in my head into something other people can use.That idea of legacy has been part of my thinking for a while. I have written before about the fact that legacy is not something we suddenly think about when we reach the end of a career. It is built through the people we invest in and the contribution we make along the way. <a data-mce-href="https://uniqueleaders.com.au/blog/build-a-legacy-that-lasts" href="https://uniqueleaders.com.au/blog/build-a-legacy-that-lasts" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Build a Legacy That Lasts</a>But I am beginning to think there is another part of legacy too.At some point you have to capture what you know.There is not much point accumulating decades of experience, mistakes, lessons, stories and hard won wisdom if all of it disappears when you eventually leave the room.Perhaps that is why I keep coming back to writing.I have talked about writing a book for years. I have lots of ideas. I have plenty of stories. What I have been less successful at is actually writing the book.Apparently thinking about writing does not count.So perhaps part of this next stage is starting smaller. Writing articles. Capturing ideas as they emerge. Turning some of what I have learnt into material that can outlast the meeting, the conference or the particular role I happen to be in today.I also know I want more space.More time with Martin and my family. More travel that does not involve a conference agenda. More room to think rather than constantly moving from one commitment to the next.I wrote at the end of last year about freedom in leadership and the need to decide what we carry forward and what we let go. I admitted then that I am not particularly good at letting go. Nothing much has changed on that front. <a data-mce-href="https://uniqueleaders.com.au/blog/freedom-to-lead-forward" href="https://uniqueleaders.com.au/blog/freedom-to-lead-forward" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Freedom to Lead Forward</a>Perhaps this is the next version of that question.What do I want to carry into the next 20 years, and what have I done for long enough?I do not know whether this next stage starts at 60, 65 or 70. I am beginning to think it probably does not start with a birthday at all.Maybe it has already started.Maybe at 55 the important thing is simply recognising that there is another stage ahead and being intentional about what I want it to contain.For me, that will still include work, purpose, contribution and leadership.But I hope it will also include family, freedom, writing, creating and a great deal more choice about where I spend my time.And, if I get the balance right, considerably more cruises.I am not ready to retire.I am ready to start thinking about what comes next.<figure id="figure-vgdqx7xq3jmtihnlzs"><img id="vgdqx7xq3jmtihnlzs" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/7FwU1Hh4ml0Bca2DreuzXaDO0tNRGNWVL0VD4ZTFlPyaDCxvxl7k28cufMdsfsc7.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="Celebrity in Seattle " data-positionX="undefined" data-positionY="undefined" data-fullWidth="false"/><figcaption class="body-normal text-gray-500 mt-2">Celebrity in Seattle </figcaption></figure>

I’m 55. I’m Not Ready to Retire. So What Comes Next?

At the start of the year, most of us had a plan.Clear goals. Good intentions. A sense of what this year would look like.And then the year started.Work accelerated. Opportunities came. Priorities shifted. For me, that meant launching a new program, speaking at two international conferences, and saying yes to things that mattered in the moment. I also took time out for a holiday, which gave me space to think more clearly.<figure id="figure-gcsie7ve5lmn10qy2z" class=""><img id="gcsie7ve5lmn10qy2z" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/4V75RakgwbzxbwPDNe1aDoZQBb900R7oYXDQb8KqZvjRXolW4BSU6JLaCd6rmyzw.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/4V75RakgwbzxbwPDNe1aDoZQBb900R7oYXDQb8KqZvjRXolW4BSU6JLaCd6rmyzw.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Now, as we head towards the end of March, it feels like the right time to pause.Not to reset.But to check in.<h3>What did you set out to do this year?</h3>It sounds simple, but most leaders have already moved past their original plan without revisiting it.The pace of the year can pull you forward before you have had a chance to reflect.Question:What were your goals at the beginning of the year, and are they still visible in how you are spending your time?<blockquote>What has actually dominated your thinking?</blockquote><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">There is often a gap between what we intended to focus on and what has actually consumed our attention.Urgency has a way of taking over.Sometimes for good reason. Sometimes by default.Reflection:What has taken most of your energy so far this year, and was that by design or by demand?<h3><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">Where have you said yes without checking the plan?</h3>Opportunities come quickly. Especially for leaders who are trusted and visible.But every yes carries a cost.Time. Focus. Energy.Question:Have you said yes to things that align with your direction, or simply because they were in front of you?<blockquote>What needs recalibration?</blockquote><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(16px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">A check-in is not about judgment. It is about adjustment.Plans are not meant to be rigid. They are meant to guide.As we move into April, we are entering an interesting crossover.For some, it is the final quarter of the financial year.For others, it is the start of the second quarter of the calendar year.Either way, it is a natural point to step back and realign.Action:What needs to shift for the next quarter to better reflect what actually matters?<h3>Final Thought</h3>Leadership is not just about setting direction at the beginning of the year.It is about staying connected to that direction as the year unfolds.A simple check-in now can change the trajectory of the months ahead.Not by doing more.But by doing what matters, on purpose.<figure id="figure-81d544n6zbmn10z2a8"><img id="81d544n6zbmn10z2a8" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/19bSCfp6NNGa0cqDmRw2XqqLvl4Q0LnXx7jw1PliKnyIqDgXYeuvts7TCshEiH8Y.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionX="undefined" data-positionY="undefined" data-fullWidth="false"/></figure><figure id="figure-egbiv7l728mn10xi4f"><img id="egbiv7l728mn10xi4f" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2552nFgyGqvkAWRqLuRyDZkAp9PiQlE3ZzyAKUVVRLcaPMGUYajlnjIoNkpl0r0c.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-sm md:rounded-md lg:rounded-lg" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2552nFgyGqvkAWRqLuRyDZkAp9PiQlE3ZzyAKUVVRLcaPMGUYajlnjIoNkpl0r0c.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>

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